You can see your future too

There are some people who claim to be clairvoyants. They might be, they might not be - that's not the issue. The issue is - how valid is the future that they see for people?

People who go to clairvoyants are usually unsure of where they stand in life, and are insecure about what they're doing and where their path is leading them. They see clairvoyants, fortune tellers, tarot card readers, etc, in order to gain some reassurance about their lives, that what they're doing is right, or that there's hope for them in their near future.

Everyone is born with what I call 'reality's road map' of their life and the paths available to them, but most people can't see their map and they're lost. They're drifting around, trying to find a path that will take them somewhere positive.

Their visits to the clairvoyant are their attempts at finding some sense in the madness of confusion and uncertainty. They feel that people who can 'see the future' are going to help them find the correct path, or reassure them that the path they're on is the right one.

The problem is that the clairvoyants aren't always right.

Some people swear by certain clairvoyants, saying that everything they were told came true. And then others who might see the same clairvoyant find that years later, nothing that was said came true.

What makes their predictions for some people come true, and not come true for others?

It's because your path on reality's road map changes. It changes because you have free will. You can choose your path and you can change your mind at any time.

The path you're on at the time you visit the clairvoyant will lead you in a certain direction, and they may see that path and describe it for you. If you continue to follow that path, what they described will probably eventuate. But if you allow yourself to be diverted from that path, which can easily occur through interaction with other people and events, your path can change. And before you know it, you're on a completely different path as a result of your freedom to choose your own life.

But then, as far as you're concerned, the clairvoyant was wrong.

Here's a wake-up call to those who then use this as 'proof' that the clairvoyant is a fake. If they can see a future ('if' being the operative word here, of course) and describes it to you, then they're never wrong. It's always only a possible future that's relevant to your life in that instant. But if they don't understand the nature of change and free will in this universe, they won't tell you it might not happen. Hell, if they even let you think that everything they describe could be completely wrong, then there'd be no point in you coming to see them any more, let alone paying them for the session you've just had! They need your money as much as you need hope and reassurance.

I used to be a clairvoyant, a long time ago. I had success with telling people's future, and even seeing people's past. But I quickly learnt that sometimes, what I saw of a future didn't always happen. Parts of it did, but other parts didn't. I came to realise this was because the future is never certain. It's fluid, and it changes with our decisions.

So how is it that clairvoyants can see things that may or may not come to pass?

Good question, young grasshopper! I'm glad you asked.

The only explanation that makes sense, of course (at least to me), is that our choices in life create other realities (other dimensions) where each of those choices are real, as well as the ongoing consequences of those choices. They aren't necessarily the reality that you might end up in, but they exist nonetheless.

If you have three choices, but you can only choose one of them, realities come into existence where each of those choices are real.

Clairvoyants are able to psychically see the most likely reality ahead of you at the time you visit them.

Try to get your head around this (and let me know if you can!) - as a spiritual being you have the power to see how a choice may affect your life. You have a connection with a higher self that's not inside this reality, and therefore can see it from outside. You can see how choices create new realities, and you can see the consequences of each choice. You can see all the paths that become available to you as a result of each choice.

If the connection to your higher self is weak, then you're not going to be able to connect with that awareness of the consequences of your choices, and you're going to be drifting around, not knowing where you're going or what you're doing.

Anyone can be psychic and see their future

Clairvoyance can be available to anyone, not just 'special people'. Your 'spiritual connection' makes itself available to you in your trust and awareness of your intuition, your 'gut feelings', and even your own personal wisdom. If you have none of those feelings or qualities, or if you ignore them, then you are operating entirely on a physical level. You're not seeing the big picture.

The big picture is that if you trusted yourself, trusted your feelings and your heart, and let yourself do those things which you know and feel are best for you, then you would actually be on the path that you're meant to be on.

The interesting thing about reality's road map is that just like the map we have in a car's GPS, it details all the different paths that are available to us. It's up to us to choose which path we follow.

Opening our hearts and honestly accepting our feelings is the best way of choosing the best path for our life.

The signs showing the path you should follow are visible to you in how you feel about people and events in your life. If something or someone is causing you grief, you have the power to change it or walk away from it.

By walking away from something that's just not working for you, no matter what you're doing, then you're choosing a different path, and that can often be the most rewarding thing you could do for yourself.

The next time you have a number of choices to choose from, try something different. Take the time out for yourself to imagine, one by one, the results and consequences of each of those choices. See where your imagination takes you. Focus on the reality in your mind that branches off from each of those choices. Allow yourself to make a decision based on your feelings about each of those imagined realities.

How do you know that what you imagine isn't actually a link to that spiritual part of you that sees those realities taking place? How do you know that by making this a habit in your life, you are doing exactly what you hope the clairvoyants will do for you?

You're seeing possible futures, and you can use what you see in your mind to help you make wise choices in your life. The future you choose is entirely in your hands.

Reality's road map is unique to each individual, and everyone has access to it - if they only let themselves see it.

This blog now has a forum for paying members only

A long time ago - probably a bit more than a decade ago - I used a forum instead of a blog. It was quite successful at the time (and some of you were even around at that time!), and I filled it up with a LOT of content. Much of it was mine, but a lot of it was also from those who participated in it.

I stopped using it after a few years because I wanted more control of my content without having to deal with the constant onslaught of forum spammers that were often bypassing the security protections, and I ended up just focusing on the blog format. But I've never forgotten how popular the forum method was.

As of the most recent change to this blog's theme, which I really like, I decided today to bring back some of the forum methodology, but integrating this blog with a forum instead of replacing it with a forum.

It's now completed, in place, and ready to be used. But....

 

How to deal with forum spammers?

One of the significant challenges bloggers face is fighting spammers, who have ever-increasing levels of sophistication in their methods of attack. This is more prominent with forums. I've had forums over the years where spammers were a huge problem, even just last year with a forum integrated into a blog. It was an experiment, but it didn't work.

I spent more time dealing with spammers on the forum than I did with members of the forum community. It got so bad that I just had to shut it down. It didn't work because of the spam, and no matter what measures I took, the spammers overcame them. The only measure that worked was to not allow automatic membership.

While manually adding members can be tedious and time consuming too, it's nowhere near as time consuming as dealing with spammers and spam. The solution to fight spam is to manually control who gets access to the forum.

As a result, one thing led to another and I decided to make the forums private, to paying members only.

This is the best way I know how to combat spam, to ensure that members are added manually, and only when they subscribe to become a member by paying whatever they want.

Further information about this and how 'pay what you want' works is on the public forum topic, An Introduction.

 

It's about the value

Free forums are ridden with spam and often useless content generated by people who don't value what they're part of, or what they're able to contribute. When something is free, it has NO VALUE, because no money was exchanged for it. It's worthless.

By having forum membership via a paid subscription, it's going to be of value, and that means members are going to be thoughtful about what they're reading, what they're learning, what they're applying to their life, and what they're contributing.

Paying members will help ensure the forum is of a much higher quality than people who pay nothing.

 

You'll be a part of a quality community

You won't be alone, and you won't be part of a community that values nothing. You'll instead be part of a like-minded group of people that want to grow, and want to be part of a community that helps and supports each other's growth.

We're all on this journey through life together, and I'm asking you to join this community and be an active member of it. Its success will be helped by you, and in return it will help you find success too.

 

I want you to be a member

Using the 'pay what you want' model, there's no reason why you can't join in. For a minimum of $1 per month, you get access to a forum that will provide you with content of value, that will help inspire you, and help you learn and grow and achieve success in your life.

Surely that's worth at least $1 a month for you?

You probably spend considerably more than that on coffee every day. One coffee a day (how many a day do you have?) during working hours is about $60 (or more) a month. Think about that when you consider the value of subscribing to The Journey Forum to find ways of improving your life.  :)

Read more about it here, and I look forward to you joining in!

Backing up my life on the cloud

For well over a decade I've been using online storage solutions for files that have been important to me. But as the years have gone by, what I've wanted to store has quite dramatically increased in size. 2Gb of free storage is no longer suitable.

When I first began using online storage solutions - now called 'the cloud' - I used it to just back up a few important documents. I think it was Google Docs that I first began this process with. But then I began using Dropbox to include documents created on my computer, and various other personal files.

The normal amount of storage available to people using Dropbox is 2Gb, but I currently have 55 Gb of storage. Free. Don't ask me how I've got that; I think it's related to the number of times I've added Dropbox to new computers (or new installations on the same computer), and they give me a bonus every time I do so.

I used to have about 12 Gb of that storage taken up with documents and photos, but with the amount of times I reinstall Windows or Linux, re-downloading everything has been really annoying - not to mention a drain on the monthly download limits we have here in Australia.

I like the idea of getting everything backed up on the cloud, but when you have so much that you want backed up and stored forever, how do I do that completely and successfully?

I have a 1 Terabyte hard drive on my computer which I use as a local backup drive. It has about 700 Gb of files stored on there at the moment. Admittedly, much of what's stored there is sentimental rather than important. I found a 4 Gb backup of important documents on a laptop I had back in 2005. Do I need that now? No.

But I DO need that 50 Gb of photos I've got backed up!

Later...

(I started writing the above earlier this morning, and now it's almost midnight.) This afternoon I did some extensive research and worked out that the best solution for my needs is Google Drive. Free gives me 15Gb a month, but for $2 a month I get 100 Gb of storage, or $10 a month will give me 1 Tb of storage. Nice!

And the good thing about it is that once I upload folders of data, I can deselect the option to sync that folder every time, so that it just stays there in the cloud, always backed up, but never to be downloaded when I reinstall Google Drive on new computers. However, at any time, I can still access the files via a web browser, or I can download them at a later time.

This is a good thing. For the past couple of years, all my photos have been auto-backed up to Google Plus online photos, and always available. The 50 Gb of photos I have on my secondary hard drive is simply old photos from my past that I don't want to lose. I don't always need them available, but it would be nice to know they're always available should I need them.

Once I get all my needed files backed up on the cloud without syncing with my computer, I'll have less of a need for a large secondary hard drive. Most of my activities can be based on cloud storage, and I'll only use the hard drive for the installation of programs to run on the computer. All my really important, must-be-always-available files add up to about 5 Gb. Those are the files I can afford to always be syncing with a local copy for easy and fast access.

What about security concerns?

Unlike many people affected by media hype, I know that my data has no interest to government authorities. They don't care about me, because I'm not doing anything illegal or suspicious. And if corporations use my data to try and send me advertising that's relevant to my lifestyle, so what? I use ad-blocking software in my web browser so I never see advertising anyway, and email spam just gets trashed.

Life's much simpler when you block the advertising that you don't want to see.

It's also much simpler when you can base your activities in the cloud so that you can access important files wherever you are in the world, on whatever computer you might be using - your own, or someone else's, or even on your phone.

Having cloud access to files has allowed me to access them on my phone to show someone, or to send to them by email on the spot. It's very convenient.

Cloud storage helps with a minimalist lifestyle

If you're trying to simplify your life and become minimalist in your approach to it (as I am), then the more physical stuff you can get rid of, the better.

Files stored in your desk or even filing cabinet can be photographed and stored in the cloud, and then the physical files (where appropriate) can be thrown away. You don't have to worry about them any more. Just make sure your photos are adequately named and categorised and you no longer need physical storage in your house for anything.

You can even do this with those sentimental items that you put on the mantelpiece or in the cupboard, or in the garage because there's no room in the house. If it's your memories you want to cherish and a physical item helps you do that, then just take photos of it and throw the item away. The photos will help you remember as the years go by.

Backing up everything onto the cloud just makes life easier.

The website has changed again

If you're a subscriber reading this, I invite you to click here to check out what I've done to the website.

When I created my other new website, Alan Seeks A Boss, the website theme I used on that site was something that I really liked, but I used it in a way that was inconsistent with this site, Alan's Journey.

Today I got around to updating this site with the same theme. I've put the sidebar widgets into the footer instead of into the sidebar, and I've tidied up the contents so it looks much neater.

I removed the Facebook Likes widget, because no one was using it anyway. 50-60 unique visitors a day and no one liking it suggests to me that it's a waste of time having it around. So out it goes.

The end result is something that is still simple, which is one of my most important parameters, because simple is fast and the faster a site is, the better it is. But not only is it simple, it also looks good and is responsive, so it changes according to the size of the screen it's being viewed on.

It also looks unique and different to any of the other blogs out there, and that's important to me. I like to stand out from the rest of the blogs out there, presenting my own unique face to the world.

And finally, I updated the banner to look the same as what's on the Alan Seeks A Boss website. I think the avatar and the style of the font in the header lends itself to a brand style. My avatar is my brand, and so I'm using that across the different sites I have.

What do you think?

Meditation and wisdom

It seems that the theme for me over this past week has been about meditation and wisdom, which is something I'm quite happy about.

A long time ago, I was a wise young man. I also meditated a lot.

And then I got older and became a grumpy older man, and wisdom has been something I've felt is lacking in me for quite a few years. I haven't meditated for quite a few years either.

And just like I've been seeking wisdom in my life again, I've also been seeking the motivation to return to meditation.

I think there's a huge correlation in the amount of wisdom a person has, and the amount of meditation they engage in.

Young people can display incredible wisdom, if they spend time in quiet contemplation about life and the human experience.

Wisdom is not something that is automatically gained the older you get. There's some really immature and ignorant old people out there. Nor is it something that you're born with, despite many children or teenagers seeming to be wise beyond their years.

Those who manage to calm their mind and avoid engaging in the chaos around them, seem to display wisdom.

It's usually in those who have learnt over the years that keeping their mind calm leads to a better life, but even children can find a peacefulness in their mind, and end up being wise too.

In my premium post this week in The Journey Files, I wrote about meditation. I wrote about how spiritually connected I used to be back when I used to meditate. I wrote about how much I miss meditating.

Since then, I've been thinking about this topic, and the connection that meditation seems to have with spiritual connections and experiences, as well as with wisdom.

I don't think it's a coincidence that the wisest of people throughout history also used to meditate.

If one seeks wisdom, then one should seek to meditate on the intricacies of life. Or even just to clear the mind. If one seeks to find clarity in thought, then meditation seems to be the path to that objective.

It's clear to me that I need to meditate more. I've already started this week, but I've only done it once. I intend developing it into a daily habit, first thing in the morning when I wake up. To clear my mind after sleeping, to begin each new day with clarity of thought.

I suspect that one of the side effects of it will be increased quality in my writing.

I also recognise that I need to purposefully move away from those things in my life that distract me from my purpose, which in this instance is to improve my writing. In order to calm my mind, I need to eliminate those things which cloud it.

There's going to be some changes around here as I work at simplifying my life and removing these emotional distractions so I can have a clearer mind when meditating.

Lots of changes, lots of processing

One of the things about my life is that it's always full of change. Something is always changing, somehow, somewhere. I usually embrace change, because it's been a part of my life ever since I was born, but sometimes change can be overwhelming.

Like the past few years of stress leading up to having to declare bankruptcy. That was a time full of change that I really didn't enjoy. It was overwhelming at times, but I kept on plodding away, one foot at a time, making my way through it.

And the past few months without work; that's been quite a change. Along with having to manage a wedding at the same time, and then a move to another city. Again, lots of change that has been overwhelming at times.

I realised tonight that during those periods where it's all been too overwhelming, I've needed to do a lot of mental processing of it. Even if that processing is to distract myself from the reality of my situation for a while, to allow me to deal with it a little further down the track. While I'm doing something to distract myself, my mind is processing in the background.

If I spent my time focusing on the overwhelming changes, I suspect I'd go mad. Or turn to drugs or something.

But instead, I spend any spare time gaming, to distract my mind from a reality that is highly stressful. And without work at the moment, I have a lot of spare time.

We're making our way through life, my wife and I, despite the challenges we have with me out of work. We're grateful for the resources that have come our way to help us through very trying times. The universe - through good friends and family - has provided for us when we've needed it, and we're always going to be grateful for that.

There's been a lot less posts on this blog over the past few weeks, and over the past few days I've been trying to work out why. My realisation tonight has been that it's because I've been overwhelmed by change, and that it's too stressful for me to write about it, or even to feel comfortable writing about anything else, and so I've stayed silent.

The fact I'm writing about this is something I'm finding amazing.

But I wanted to share this with you to explain why I haven't maintained my desired 500 words a day. I wanted to talk about it because I need to justify it for myself as to why I'm slacking off.

And in doing so, I might even end up justifying to myself why I should ignore all that and just get on with the 500 words a day again.

There's a lot of people out there going through a lot harder experiences than I have been.

"I complained about having no shoes, until I met a man who had no feet."

We can always find something stressful and overwhelming in our lives, but we have to find a way to get through it. There's no other way forward. We have to be grateful for what we have, and for what we've achieved.

I appreciate the reminder to myself about that.

Best of Melbourne Photos #1

I've been here in Melbourne for almost 3 weeks now, and I've had the chance to get out and about and take a few photos here and there. Here's a link to where you can view...

The Best of Melbourne Photos #1

Please enjoy!