Traveler Interview: Johnny Ward of One Step 4 Ward

We have a new interview today with Johnny Ward, who's been travelling around the world for about 7 years so far. I've particularly enjoyed reading not only his blog posts about his travels and experiences, but also his rants and advice about making money. In the rants you can often find truths that many people don't talk about, and the 'making money' bit... well, I'm particularly interested in that!

Without further ado, let's get into the interview.

Could you please tell the readers a little bit about yourself?

Sure, I'm a nomadic Irishman - been on the road since graduating Uni in 2007, I've travelled to over 100 countries and I run a business for about 10 hours per week from my laptop. On the rare occasions when i'm not on the road, I'm based in Bangkok, Thailand where I have an apartment in the city.

Why have you chosen Bangkok as your base?

Bangkok is a real hub for 'digital nomads'. The lifestyle vrs cost of living is unparalled around the world. For a budget of around $3k per month you can have a tailor, a maid, a city centre apartment, a personal trainer etc. It's really something special.

You started travelling back in 2006 - why did you make that choice?

I come from a really small town in Ireland, I grew up in a single parent family with no money so the prospects of world travel were slim. I always dreamt of far away places but they never seemed feasible. Then as soon as I graduated I thought 'screw this, let's give it a go!', that was 7 years ago and i'm still going!

What would you say is the motivation that keeps you going?

I have a dream to visit every country in the world, that's something I'd be very proud to acheive. So I don't wanna rest until then! Also, from my fan page I'm aware how many people would love to be doing what I'm doing, so I feel compelled to enjoy the opportunities that I have as much as i can.

In your travels so far, have you found a favourite country?

To live, Thailand hand's down. But not to travel in, that's been done, and done again! To travel in, I'd say Ethiopia, or Iceland (or Papua New Guinea) - you get much more authentic experiences if you venture a little further than the others.

So why is Thailand your favourite country to live in, and why are the other three countries your favourite to travel in?

Living in Thailand, like I said earlier, is just just an amazing lifestyle. I can recover from my road-weariness, get stuck into some more online projects with decent internet, I can continue learning Thai and the restaurant/bar/club scene in Bangkok is really fun too.

Traveling in Ethiopia remains one of my favourite backpacking destinations. It's super cheap, but with so much to see. Lalibela, where churches are dug into the ground as opposed to on top of it, should be one of the most famous sites in the world and were it not in such an obscure country, it certainly would be.

Iceland at Christmas is a real bucket list ticket. The northern lights are spectacular, as is riding snowmobiles over glaciers, ice-climbing and partying in Reykjavik. It may not be cheap, but it's worth it.

PNG is a place I had been longing to visit, i love to go where other people generally don't. And like my trips in Sudan, Somalia, East Timor, Kazakhstan etc as soon as I landed in PNG i felt like i was really traveling again. I stayed with a local tribe in Medang, a small town in the north of the country. They welcomed me with a local tribal dance, I ate dinner with the chiefs - amazing!

What's been your most memorable experience in your travels?

As a huge sport fan I loved the Olympics in Bejing and the World Cup in South Africa, but I'm a huge wildlife fan so trekking with gorillas in Rwanda took my breath away.

What was it like in Beijing during the Olympics? What do you remember best about it?

Beijing was electric during the OIympics. They knew the eyes of the world were on them and they delivered. Best ever Olympics? Very possible. Beijing is always fascinating - Great Wall of China, Peking duck etc but that combined with elite sport was perfect. And China is very affordable to travel in to, another huge plus!

Have you worked out an average cost of travel per week, or does it depend on the country you're in?

Excluding business expenses, I guess I'd spend around $400 per week. Naturally it depends which country you're in but on average I'd say about $1500-$2k per month is more than adequate.

What's been the most expensive country you've travelled through, and the cheapest?

Most expensive is Bhutan, the visa is $290 PER DAY for a solo traveler! The cheapest is probably Bangladesh.

What do you do to earn money along the way?

I have a few income streams online, I run a number of websites and have a number of staff who manage them. That allows me the freedom to travel when and where i want!

What do you like and dislike about your lifestyle choice?

Dislike? Very, very little to be honest. It used to be my lack of money, but online business are growing so that's not such a worry anymore. The biggest dislike is actually a fear that it could end! Like? Everything, no boss, no alarms, indefinte travel - i wouldn't swap it for anything.

How has the travelling lifestyle changed you?

I like to think it's made me more patient, and it's certainly opened my eyes to how fortunate we are to come from 'developed' (hate the term) countries - with our health care, education, opportunities etc. I appreciate everything i have, every day and the more i travel, the more grateful i feel.

What advice would you offer people who are thinking about doing the same thing?

In terms of travel, do it and do it as soon as possible. If you want it to be a new lifestyle, then work out a way to make money online whether it's freelance skype english teaching, article writing, sales, affiliate marketing - find a way to bring it at least $1k a month, then you'll be truly free!

 

Thanks Johnny, I really appreciate your time! 

You can find him at any of the following locations:

• Travel blog: One Step 4 Ward


• Twitter: onestep4ward


• Facebook: onestep4ward

A quick way to determine your personality type

Most people like a quick way of determining their personality type without needing to do a test. They might not have enough time, or maybe their personality type just doesn't like doing tests!

So I thought it would be a great idea to allow you to quickly work out what your personality type is likely to be.

Just have a look at the below personality traits and pick out which one from each section feels like it's you, and the result will be four letters that tell you who you are. Then click on the link for that type and read the description to find out more.

Are you Extroverted or Introverted?
Extraverted (E) Expressive, outgoing, prefer group activities, eager to speak their minds, more comfortable when around other people than when alone, get energized by social interaction	Introverted (I) Reserved, listen carefully, prefer solitary activities, more comfortable when alone than when around other people, get exhausted by social interactio
Are you Intuitive or Sensing?
Intuitive (N) Introspective, rely on their imagination, absorbed in ideas, focus on what might happen	Sensing (S) Observant, rely on their senses, absorbed in practical matters, focus on what has happened
Are you Thinking or Feeling?
Thinking (T) Tough, follow their minds, suppress feelings, focus on objectivity and rationality	Feeling (F) Sensitive, follow their hearts, keep feelings close to the surface, focus on harmony and cooperation
Are you Judging of Perceiving?
Judging (J) Decisive, prefer clear rules and guidelines, eager to commit, see deadlines as sacred, seek closure	Perceiving (P) Probing, prefer keeping their options open, reluctant to commit, relaxed about their work, seek freedom

For me, it's easy to see that I'm introverted, reserved, prefer solitary activities, etc. So that makes me an I... Then I look at the next row and I can see that I'm more in my imagination and ideas and 'what might happen' than the other, so that makes me an N... So then the next row, for me, is a little bit more difficult. I can see how I would fit into the Thinking, but it doesn't feel like I am. However, I can also see that I'm just not in the Feeling side, so that essentially confirms I'm a T... And the last row tells me that I'm definitely a P.

So this is a good and quick way of determining which personality type you are. Once you've worked it out, click on the appropriate link below to read more about it.

INTJ	INFJ	INTP	INFP
ISTJ	ISFJ	ISTP	ISFP
ENTJ	ENFJ	ENTP	ENFP
ESTJ	ESFJ	ESTP	ESFP

You might also find that using the above 'quick and easy' way of determining personality types can help you understand the personality type of family, friends or anyone else that you're curious about.

 

Understanding more about how and why people do the things they do can be beneficial in your interactions with them.

I hope this post has been of help to you.

Traveler Interview: Raam of RaamDev

Raam Dev is someone whom I consider a good friend of mine. He's stayed in my house twice now. Yeah, he came back for a second visit! It might have been the beer, I'm not sure... Anyway, I'm really happy to be presenting today's traveler interview with Raam Dev.

Raam, thank you for this interview! Could you please tell us a little about yourself first?

I'm a thinker, writer, and explorer. At 8th grade, my parents handed me the responsibility of teaching myself (I was home schooled my entire life). Fascinated by computers and technology, I taught myself web development and computer programming in my teens, inherited my parents anything-is-possible mindset, and jumped straight into working instead of pursuing a college degree (employers didn't care much that I didn't have a degree after they tested my knowledge).

Many years of climbing the career ladder and chasing dreams went by before I realized they were not my own and decided to redesign my life to better suit my nature of curiosity. I now live and travel with one backpack and a laptop. I'm fascinated by life, purpose, and meaning. How can we live better? Why are we here? What does it all mean? When I'm not writing computer code, I'm pondering those questions and writing about them.

Why did you decide to start travelling?

I've always wanted to see the world, to know that it was actually out there, to experience it with my own two eyes and my own two feet. I grew up without a television in the house, but my parents had a VCR and TV monitor and they would buy entire series of videos from National Geographic, PBS, and NOVA. I watched those series over and over, fascinated by everything.

But there came a point where I would watch those videos of kangaroos in the Australian Outback or the lions in the African Serengeti and I would be frustrated. Watching the world through a television, or later reading about the world through a computer screen, just wasn't enough for me. I needed to be out there. I wanted to be the person behind the camera, not watching an edited version of what the camera captured.

So since I was a little boy, I've always known that I would travel the world one day. In my mind it was just a matter of when, not if.

One day, after putting it off for so, so many years and telling myself that I'd get to it eventually, I felt something inside me begin to die. It was that hope, that belief that I would one day travel and see the world. Something inside me was giving up. I knew right then and there that I needed to go now or it may never happen.

So the very next moment I opened a new text file on my laptop and started drafting my resignation letter. I emailed it to my boss that evening. Six months later, after selling nearly all my stuff, I packed one small backpack and left for India, just shy of my 28th birthday.

How long have you been travelling?

Technically I've been traveling since I was a little boy. My parents took me on a six-week trip to India when I was three years old. That trip is the basis for some of my earliest memories. My parents are entrepreneurial and they were always running a business of some type, often requiring some form of travel.

I spent a large amount of my childhood in the car gazing out the window during business road trips and marveling at the Earth from the sky on short flights to major cities around the USA. But even outside the actual traveling, I think of my childhood as being one long adventure. I was always outside in the backyard, turning over rocks and exploring the big world of tiny bugs. I would swim with fish and turtles and catch frogs. In my mind, I've always been traveling somewhere.

However, outside the family business trips I did as a child and early teen, I traveled very little. Until my trip to India in 2010, I had never been outside the USA (with the exception of Canada and the trip to India when I was three). I wanted to travel, but I always found a reason to make work more important, no matter how stressful or unfulfilling.

What's your favourite country, and why?

That's hard to say. I've only been to a few, namely India, Vietnam, Nepal, and Australia. I'm on a flight to Montenegro (in Central Europe) as I type this. Of the former countries I would have to say India was the most amazing. I've spent five months there and barely scratched the surface. India is incredibly diverse and culturally rich. Those five months felt like a lifetime and I can't wait to go back. I still have so much of the world to see and explore.

What's been your most memorable experience?

When I was in Nepal, a non-profit contacted me through my website and asked me to write about the work they were doing. I told them I couldn't do that without meeting the people running the organization and seeing firsthand the work they were doing. To my surprise, I received an email back informing me that the owners' brother could pick me up the next morning and show me around. I was a little wary about going somewhere with a stranger in a country that I didn't know very well, but I took a chance.

The next morning I was picked up, on a motorcycle, and rode for the entire day through the rugged mountains of Nepal. The next day we got off the bike and hiked up into the mountains, across streams and fields of corn, to a little school nestled above the clouds. The non-profit was helping build schools in remote parts of Nepal so that children wouldn't have to walk six hours to get to class each day.

After a lunch in one of the nearby huts, they led me out to the courtyard of the school where a hundred school children stood, all the boys on one side and all the girls on the other, creating a path for me walk between them. Every single child was holding a handpicked bouquet of wildflowers. As I walked past them, each one handed their flowers to me.

I had done nothing but visit and yet I was treated like a king. A few minutes later the teachers stood up one-by-one and gave a little speech in Nepali. Then they asked me to say something. I had never given a public speech of any kind. I was home schooled my whole life. I had never even stood in front of so many children before. But how could I say no? So I stood up and I said a few words (the words escape me now).

Wealthy donors had given millions of dollars to this non-profit and here I was, with a few hundred dollars in my bank account. What could I give? What could I do? That's when I realized what I had that they didn't: access to the world, physically and through my voice and my writing. I could reach people that they couldn't. I could share their story. I could encourage others to give. I could encourage others to travel and see the world for what it really was. And that was likely worth more than any money I could donate.

What's your average cost of travel per week?

That varies greatly by country. On my first trip outside of the USA, to India in 2010, I only had $1,500 USD in my bank account. I knew I was going to be gone for six months (I had a round-trip plane ticket with a return six months out), so I divided that $1500 up and made my budget $250/month.

Believe it or not, with a little effort $250/month is actually very doable in India. I ended up going to Vietnam and Nepal during those six months and this trip wasn't about staying within budget, but rather enjoying this new experience. I did a little freelance work online while I was there to earn some extra money.

While I didn't stay within the $250/month budget I did manage to average about $500/month, which included the additional expense of flying from India, to Vietnam and then to Nepal, and then back to India.

During my trip in 2010, and for a few months after, I kept a detailed record of exactly how much I spent living this lifestyle and I published the reports on my site. Lots of people found those reports helpful and I intend to start publishing them again.

What do you do to earn money?

For the first few years after I left my job, I found occasional remote freelance work using my programming and web development skills. The work was extremely sporadic and budgeting was challenging -- some months I made $0 and other months I made $800 -- but it was worth every ounce of the freedom.

In late 2012, I was approached by a small software company called WebSharks. They make a popular WordPress Membership Plugin calleds2Member. I was hired on to help with various aspects of the business and that work currently pays the bills. It also allows me to remain location independent, as the entire team works remotely.

My long-term ambitions are with making a living through creative work and I'm working towards making a full-time income through my writing.

What do you like and dislike about your lifestyle choice?

There's nothing that I don't like about this lifestyle. I'm living exactly how I want to live. I know that my lifestyle isn't right for everyone, but everyone has a different path. This path feels right for me.

How has it changed you?

I see the world as my home and humanity as my family. The world feels both bigger and small all at the same time. I feel more grateful, more happy, and more at peace. I'm no longer so focused on myself and my own tiny world and instead see more of the bigger picture (but definitely not all of it; I've only scratched the surface). I feel a greater sense of purpose, even if I still have no idea what that purpose is.

What advice would you offer people who are thinking about doing the same thing?

Get rid of anything that doesn't help you with your goal. If you want to travel the world, owning a car (or a bicycle, or a house, or a toaster) probably isn't contributing to a goal of traveling indefinitely but rather keeping you from it.

Put yourself in the shoes of a future version of yourself who is living the lifestyle you want to live and ask that version of yourself what their world looks like. What does that future version of yourself have in their life? What kinds of choices do they make? What do they find important? Now start applying that mindset to the you of today. Start working towards that.

I was brought up believing in reincarnation, but who knows if we're reborn? Why take the chance? If you only live once you may as well be the person you want to be, the person you feel inside that you were meant to be. You already have everything you need to get there. You just need to take the next step in that direction.

Thank you Raam, I really appreciate you taking the time to answer these questions. They're inspirational. To the rest of you, I've been a subscriber of Raam's letters for quite a while now, and I wholeheartedly recommend them to you. He's a great thinker with some great insights about life, the universe and everything. 

You can find him over at raamdev.com

Starting Over (guest post)

I've been a passive aggressive man in my past relationships, so my writing has been about my experiences and my growth from my perpective. But there's also the perspective of someone who has had to live with a passive aggressive man, and it's that perspective that I've never been able to write about.

One of my regular visitors has been affected by a passive aggression partner. We've had a number of discussions over the past year or so, and she's finally decided that she would love to write a guest post in my blog, on the topic of passive aggression. I'm very happy for her to be a guest writer here, writing about something important to her, from the perspective of being the partner of a passive aggressive man! I'm grateful and appreciative that she wants to share her feelings with us on this blog.

Without further ado, it's my honour to present her first post.

Starting Over 

When interacting with a passive/aggressive man, the man may choose not to change, or he may be lazy in changing, not realizing you are serious about ending the relationship.  This forces the person tired of the passive/aggressive man to end the relationship in order in order to survive physically, emotionally, and for the well-being of the children.

How do you start over?   First you have to start with the divorce.  Are you sure you want to divorce?  Is there any shred of hope left?  I don’t believe there is any hope left.  I have tried for 20 years to no avail.  I have asked him to support me (emotionally) which he doesn’t know how nor does he want to learn how.  I have given him lists on what I feel I need emotionally, and the lists have been ignored.  I have asked him to help me train the children, and he said he doesn’t know how.  So I gave him books, and the books were ignored.

So what do I do?  Move on.  Despite the pain, separation, and devastation to the children, I have to move on to preserve the remnant that is left.  I am lonely, and I can’t imagine being lonely for another 20 years.  Not only that, the children need a parent in charge.  Division of authority leads to confusion and rebellion.  This leaves many hopes and dreams shattered and dissolved, but at the same time those hopes and dreams never came to fruition.

Once you find a lawyer, you will want to be civil about the matter.  No sense in fighting with the person and wasting a lot of money.  I will have to give up a lot, but at the same time, I don’t believe I have any choice.  You will also want to be civil and kind with the children.   It is hard to refrain from talking bad about the spouse, but the children still need a dad.  One that they can admire, think highly of, and spend loving time with him regardless of the failed relationship between us.  Maybe he will do better with the children once the separation/divorce is in place.  So far he hasn’t, and it might be a hard reality check with the children also.  It has been two weeks since he has moved out, and he has not had any physical visitation with the children.  They blame it on me, but I try to comfort them and I do (right now), try to justify it until the divorce is final.    After the divorce is final,  I will let the cards fall where they fall.

Reality is starting to hit hard.  I cry many days.  Many days I feel relieved.  My heart aches.  But I have to be strong.

My journey begins.

- Girl Friday

Are you an Indigo Adult?

Back in 2011, a friend of mine suggested to me that I might be an Indigo.“Eh? What’s that?” I thought to myself, and then, like everything that comes into my life that I don’t know about, I Googled it to learn what it is. What I discovered about Indigos intrigued me. I felt that it answered a lot of questions, but it also raised even more.

Ever since then, I've found and met Indigos in my life and on the internet. They're out there, and they're looking for answers. They find my writing, and they get in touch with me. They don't understand why they have the experiences they do, but they know they feel alone as a result of them. Finding other Indigos is like finding an oasis in the desert, with other Indigos gathered around the waterhole.

They might not have the answers, but at least they realise that they're looking for them together.

So what is an Indigo Adult?

This quote is, I think, a good outline of what an Indigo Adult is:

Some people say that the purpose of all Indigo adults is to raise the vibration of the planet – this is mostly true, they are not here to cower in fear or to do nothing at all. They are here to improve this planet for everyone, in some way. But often where Indigo adults have a problem is in finding out exactly how they can improve the planet. Every cell in an organism serves a function, and as an Indigo cell, you are not like every other Indigo cell. You possess the same molecular structure, but your function is different. The eye cell doesn’t do the same thing as the hair cell. Both are needed, both are loved, respected and accepted for what they are, but they do not have the same traits and abilities. They don’t do the same thing. So what is your purpose as an Indigo adult? You have to find it yourself.

Yeh, that’s great. Thanks….

I know that my writing is my way of helping to improve the planet. I know that in my communications and connections with other people, I provide them with answers or assistance to problems they're experiencing. I feel like I'm doing my part, but I also know I could be doing so much more. I feel like that will happen soon enough, and I just need to be patient and let things work out as they should.

How do you know if you’re an Indigo?

Well, if you can relate to most of the following, or even all of them, then it’s likely that you are an Indigo:

1. Are intelligent, though may not have had top grades.


2. Are very creative and enjoy making things.


3. Always need to know WHY, especially why they are being asked to do something.


4. Had disgust and perhaps loathing for much of the required and repetitious work in school.


5. Were rebellious in school in that they refused to do homework and rejected authority of teachers, OR seriously wanted to rebel, but didn’t DARE, usually due to parental pressure.


6. May have experienced early existential depression and feelings of helplessness. These may have ranged from sadness to utter despair. Suicidal feelings while still in high school or younger are not uncommon in the Indigo Adult.


7. Have difficulty in service-oriented jobs. Indigos resist authority and caste system of employment.


8. Prefer leadership positions or working alone to team positions.


9. Have deep empathy for others, yet an intolerance of stupidity.


10. May be extremely emotionally sensitive including crying at the drop of a hat (no shielding) Or may be the opposite and show no expression of emotion (full shielding).


11. May have trouble with RAGE.


12. Have trouble with systems they consider broken or ineffective, ie. political, educational, medical, and legal.


13. Alienation from or anger with politics – feeling your voice won’t count and/or that the outcome really doesn’t matter.


14. Frustration with or rejection of the traditional American dream – 9-5 career, marriage, 2.5 children, house with white picket fence, etc.


15. Anger at rights being taken away, fear and/or fury at “Big Brother watching you.”


16. Have a burning desire to do something to change and improve the world. May be stymied what to do. May have trouble identifying their path.


17. Have psychic or spiritual interest appear fairly young – in or before teen years.


18. Had few if any Indigo role models. Having had some doesn’t mean you’re not an indigo, though.


19. Have strong intuition.


20. Random behavior pattern or mind style – (symptoms of Attention Deficit Disorder). May have trouble focusing on assigned tasks, may jump around in conversations.


21. Have had psychic experiences, such as premonitions, seeing angels or ghosts, out of body experiences, hearing voices.


22. May be electrically sensitive such as watches not working and street lights going out as you move under them, electrical equipment malfunctioning and lights blowing out.


23. May have awareness of other dimensions and parallel realities.


24. Sexually are very expressive and inventive OR may reject sexuality in boredom or with intention of achieving higher spiritual connection. May explore alternative types of sexuality.


25. Seek meaning to their life and understanding about the world May seek this through religion or spirituality, spiritual groups and books, self-help groups and books.


26. When they find balance they may become very strong, healthy, happy individuals.

Now, the only one I don’t relate to in the above list is #22, but I’ve often thought it would be pretty cool if street lights blew behind me as I walked along…. although that would probably really freak me out, so it’s probably a good thing that doesn’t happen!

One of the interesting things is that you either relate to most of them, or only a few of them. You're either Indigo or you're not. If you are, you also have a strong feeling that you're just not like other people, that you're different, and few others understand you.

You're not alone.

Do you think you’re an Indigo Adult?

If you relate to most of the 26 traits in the above list, I’d really love to hear from you, either in a comment below, or by email. I’d like to get to know more Indigo Adults out there.

Traveler Interview: Charlie of SpyTravelogue

Today's interview with a perpetual traveler features Charlie Grosso ofSpyTravelogue. You can also find her About page here atcharliegrosso.com and that will lead you to some of her other ventures in art, photography, writing and consulting.

Could you please tell us about yourself?

A 140 character bio reads something like this:

Art Gallery Director. Brand Consultant. Photographer. Adventurer. Writer. Possible Spy. Drove Across the World in a Tiny Car. Fearing Less Loving More. Only fitting I live under an alias.

I have a background as an advertising photographer and a creative director before I fully embrace the unconventional life I now live.

Currently I am the executive director of a roaming gallery in NYC. I write for various travel outlets when I am on the road. I am addicted to adventure and I seek out it out as frequently as possible, including being the only woman to complete The Mongol Rally alone in 2012.

I have been working on a long term documentary project called, Wok the Dog, about food markets around the world and I will finish the shooting portion of it this year.

Why did you decide to start travelling?

I don’t think there was a moment that I decided to travel. I did my first solo trip when I was 20, Europe on a EuroRail Pass. Nothing too out of the ordinary but the hunger for more set in ever since.

What keeps me on the road is a sense of love and curiosity. I want to see the world. I want to engage in it, be a part of it, and participate. I want to bring you stories back from out there so you would go see it for yourself.

How long have you been travelling?

I’ve been actively traveling for 15 years now.

What's your favourite country, and why?

Ha! That is a tough question and I think one most frequent travelers hate. The easy answer, where I have not been.

What's been your most memorable experience?

The things that really stick in my mind are the people that I meet. There has been no shortage of adventures, from The Mongol Rally and my teammates quitting on me and going it alone to being kidnapped in Morocco to buses filled w/ counterfeit goods crossing boarders to hitching a ride in the middle of the night in Colombia. It is seldomly just the event alone that makes it memorable but the characters that help fill out the plot line. My teammates and their individual temperament that lead to them quitting. Fellow ralliers that fills my heart with joy and the connect we share, the sense of camaraderie. Michele the Romanian judge who was on the bus filled w/ counterfeit goods and the cab ride we shared afterwards. The man who kidnapped me in Morocco is actually an ex-lover of a friend’s friend.

The good, the bad…..all the stories are made better because of the people who played a part in it and it is the people that I meet on the road that is always my favorite and makes the largest impact. Occasionally, I meet another part of myself and that is pretty remarkable too.

What's your average cost of travel per week?

That really depends on the country I am in and what is going on. I’ve lived on $30 a day in Central America. I try to keep it very in-expensive.

What do you do to earn money?

I work as a freelance brand consultant which is something I can do from the road. The art gallery is growing and it is starting to sustain me.

What do you like and dislike about your lifestyle choice?

The uncertainty is something most people find challenging. There is no guarantee or certainty to be had and embracing the unknown as hard or as far as we do is not easy. There are moments when I question my choice and wonder if life would be easier if I stayed in advertising or just did one thing or gone the predictable path. However, I feel like I am actively living my life instead of just existing and counting down the days. Feeling absolutely alive as frequently as I do is something that I would not trade.

How has it changed you?

I worry a little less, fear less.

What advice would you offer people who are thinking about doing the same thing?

I wish this was a video interview…so you can see the look on my face. Ha! You mean, to go traveling or to live multiple lives at the same time?

Either way, don’t think too hard about it is what I would say. Thinking just gets in the way and this is the advice from someone who has a PhD in over-thinking everything. Everyone I know who now lives on the road and are a perpetual traveler started out on a 3 month – 1 year trip and decided they didn’t want to return to their lives. I am one of the few who decided to come back and live a double life. The re-entry and the next exit is always hard but it gets better with time. What you learn from being on the road is that you can’t really plan these things. You figure it out as you go and so figure it out as you go. Trust it and don’t let fear dictate how you live your life.

Charlie, thank you so much for your time in responding to this interview, it's really appreciated.

 

Let's fix that personality of yours

I've known for quite a few years now that I'm an introvert, which I've been embracing fully. My fiancée is introverted as well, which works really well for both of us. I know someone who's completely extroverted and, like many extroverts, she thinks that 'her way' is the only normal way. Anyone that's introverted has something wrong with them.

Late last year she tried a sort of intervention. She sat me and my fiancée down one day and told us how concerned she was for us. Being introverted wasn't normal, she said. Surely there's medical treatments for it, she said. With a look of concern she said she needed to tell us that we weren't normal, that we had issues, and she was sure there was an operation we could undergo that would fix us. She'd help us find the proper treatment, she said.

Before I could bitch-slap her I stood up, said to my partner it was time to go, and walked out. I haven't seen her since and I've worked out that I have no interest in seeing her again.

It offends me that these judgemental, closed-minded, short-sighted, ignorant people exist. I can tolerate it to a point, but that point is when they start encouraging me and my loved one to have an operation to be something I'm not, just so they feel more comfortable around me.